Haircut

Something on your “to-do list” that never gets done.

It’s so easy to forget about ourselves. Oftentimes, a haircut becomes more time consuming than it should be. Always put off for more prioritized projects. Something I neglect to get a haircut, finally gets the ✔️ two months later. Is haircuts still a priority? Some view a haircut as a necessity, feeling that they are expensive.

Or maybe age comes with a decline in haircuts. The routine kind of changed at the age of thirty for myself. Does the sense of a regular cut change with age? Men may have a different time frame for a haircut. But as time changes so does keeping up with our routine haircuts.

As important as a haircut is, nowadays that is an extra $30 for a haircut. In reality skipping the haircut a couple more weeks is extra cash in the pocket. To add the $30 to the car – full of a tank of gas. This answer is thinking outside the box – right? After all a haircut once was on the to-do list.

Until our beautiful minds meet again, be safe out there. Many blessings and much love. Remember Everyday Minds Matter -Della 💞🦋

Testing Patience

Faith and patience are two of the most important traits that we must develop if we want to get through life with dignity. Unfortunately, not everyone is equipped with the same level of resilience, which can make it difficult when it comes to disagreements or moments where our opinion differs from others. When those moments occur, it’s important for us to remain in control of our actions and behavior, no matter how much our feelings want to tell us otherwise.

Have Patience

In such cases, praying can often help guide us towards making the right decisions, allowing God to handle matters as best as possible. It’s important that we do not give in to any rash impulses during these times; instead, take a few moments to breathe and collect yourself so that you may assess the situation in a better way before attempting to find an appropriate solution. Only then will you be able to act out of character without regretting it later on.

When we encounter situations that test our faith and patience, it can be a difficult experience to get through. When two people have different views, disagreements can arise and lead to arguments or hurt feelings. In these cases, it’s important to know how to handle the situation in a positive way that doesn’t cause more harm or emotional pain. The first step is to take some time and think before speaking. When emotions are running high, it can be easy to react without considering the consequences of your words. Pause and reflect on what the other person has said instead of instantly reacting. It may even be helpful to take a break from the conversation altogether if necessary in order to regain composure and ensure you won’t regret your words later.

Once you are able to discuss the situation with a calmer headspace, express your opinion respectfully. Be open minded and try not to talk over one another – take turns when talking about the issue at hand and let each person have their say. Listen actively for what the other person is saying rather than merely hearing them out and already formulating a rebuttal in your head as they speak. Ultimately, this will help foster understanding on both sides as well as build empathy which could ultimately bring you closer together as opposed to driving further apart. Even if you don’t agree with the other person’s opinion or perspective on things, respect their right to have it nonetheless. Showing acceptance even in times of disagreement will go a long way.

Maintaining peace between two people with opposing beliefs or opinions while still allowing both sides the freedom to share their point of view; without feeling judged or attacked by the other party involved. By testing our faith and patience with difficult conversations and tough topics, we have an opportunity for growth – if handled correctly. Rather than looking at such situations as “painful experiences”, view them instead as potential lessons that can bring us closer together as we learn from each other with mutual understanding and compassion rather than simply competing against each other for who can “win” in any given argument or debate.

Conflicting views or relationships can trigger our mental health issues. How we are able to balance conflict is a matter of patience. Even though our patience can be tested, you are in control. You are able to change a defusing situation by your mindset. It can be easy to speak out of character but to resolve the matter with patience, takes practice. High emotions will not help the situation. Emotions will only trigger action or behavior that can escalate the situation. Trying to be calm is a practice that involves breathing technique, that relaxes the mindset. Giving the ability to rethink the message sent by the other person. Once a balance of acceptance is clear the views can point in the right direction.

As we all know, being open minded is important to convey the point of view in a suitable environment. Allowing the mental process to view the empathy behind the intention. Most likely being level headed will defuse the matter to an understanding. Giving the parties opportunity to rationalize through knowledge vs. action. Not every situation can be resolved peacefully. However minimizing the behavior will prevent further conflict. The best scenario is to conquer with kindness. Your resistance to listen or view the perception will determine the end result. Do take a minute to level down and communicate effectively. Take a minute to regroup the mindset so testing patience, will resolve efficiently.

Until our beautiful minds meet again, be safe out there. Many blessings and much. Remember Everyday Minds Matter. -Della 💞🦋

(AI) Artificial Intelligence

If you could un-invent something, what would it be?

The technological revolution of the 21st century has seen the introduction of Artificial Intelligence (AI) into the mainstream of our lives. AI has been touted as the “savior” that will help us become more efficient, save money and make decisions faster. But, in recent years, AI has created a world of cyber-humans. Machines are taking jobs away from people and have already taken over some aspects of daily life. This is why we should seriously consider un-inventing AI or, at least, restructuring its current design. Instead of creating artificial intelligence that is focused on mundane tasks such as making copies or checking inventory, we should create AI with a purpose – to solve crimes, handle dangerous situations and ultimately replace dangerous jobs that humans currently do. AI could be used to investigate deaths, catch criminals or detect fraud quickly and accurately.

I believe a real cop having a robot (ai) partner could be ideal to save an officers life. Technology of AI could be an ultimate solution to violence and prevent situations from being more destructive. Robots could act as protect and serve just like humans. I believe that the force of a robot could be useful towards dangerous situations where as they can’t be killed like people. Reducing the fatalities on the streets. These types of applications would greatly benefit society and alleviate many dangers that we are faced with on a daily basis. As our world moves ever closer to becoming increasingly automated and “smart” through the use of AI, it’s important for us to recognize the need for this technology to be used responsibly and with care. We should take every precaution necessary to ensure that our development and use of AI remains ethical and beneficial to humanity as a whole. By refocusing AI development on problem solving tasks rather than simply taking jobs away from humans, we can make sure that this technology serves humanity in an effective way without destroying lives or endangering those who depend on their current roles in society. In conclusion, instead of embracing the potential disaster that uncontrolled artificial intelligence may bring about, let us move forward with caution when it comes to inventing new forms of intelligent systems. We should focus on creating applications for machines that can serve humanity rather than put people out of work – because ultimately no matter how smart a machine might become it cannot replace human compassion and understanding.

Until our beautiful minds meet again, be safe out there. Many blessings and much love. Remember Everyday Minds Matter -Della 💞🦋

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Twisted, Tilted, and Tested

Balancing: Body and Mind – Army of One

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2023 is a tumultuous year, where the world is still operating on an unbalanced and unsteady axel. This analogy applies to our own lives as well – with so many responsibilities weighing us down, we can find ourselves off-kilter and struggling to regain balance. It’s our duty to get back up on our feet again no matter how often life knocks us down. The idea of falling down and getting back up again may seem cliché but it’s a necessary step in life’s journey. Standing back up to balance can be crippling depending on the situation to overcome.

As we struggle with work, relationships, family, and other everyday tasks. We must remind ourselves that there will always be times of great stress when we have no choice; but to fall down in order to move forward. Each of us is responsible for ourselves – for finding stability in a world that seems constantly chaotic. There are no guarantees in life, so when we inevitably fall, it’s important that we stand up and look for the next path forward without fear or hesitation. We should focus on growing from our struggles rather than simply giving into despair or pessimism. This is the only way we can continue building towards a better future where balance can truly be found once more. We all want the same thing – a world that turns in the proper direction without wear and tear from being burdened by such heavy loads. Until then, however, each of us has to strive towards this vision through taking small steps while never letting failure discourage us from believing in better days ahead.

Life is still filled with obstacles and hardships. Our paths have often become twisted and tilted, leading us in unexpected directions that we never thought possible. While it can be discouraging at times, it’s also essential to learn how to overcome these struggles as it teaches us to build resilience and fortitude within ourselves. Despite our obstacles, one of the things we strive for is a world that turns in a proper direction and provides a platform for everyone to succeed. This can be difficult because of the amount of wear and tear that comes with carrying such a heavy load but this only pushes us forward and helps us learn to navigate our way through unfamiliar territory. It requires hard work, dedication, commitment and above all else, determination. Though the journey ahead can seem intimidating, remember you are never alone. We all face challenging circumstances from time to time and if we stumble or get thrown off balance there is always an opportunity to fall down and start again. Whether it’s dealing with loss or finding new ways of moving forward, building a world where we are allowed to grow on our own two feet should be our primary focus in order to create a more equitable future for generations to come.

It’s a difficult and lonely journey at times, to go through life feeling unbalanced, weak and uncertain. You may have faced tragedy or struggle, like so many of us, that leaves you feeling completely drained and with little hope for the future. But it is possible to find balance, strength and courage even in those difficult moments when everything seems lost. All it takes is taking one step at a time, just one finger on the ledge. Though you may feel overwhelmed by pain and exhaustion, there is still a deep-seated strength inside you that can push you forward – even if it doesn’t seem like it in the moment. That inner voice, telling you “you got this” is the most important thing to listen to. That little whisper from within is the only friend who will always be there for you – no matter what happens in life. So listen to it! Use it as your guiding light whenever times are tough and darkness descends around you. Your mind is powerful beyond measure and will see you through whatever comes your way.

The power of life lies in the feet – two for balance and one for each body and mind. During hard times our faith is tested, we may lose hope, or feel that we are standing on the edge of disaster. But instead of letting fear take control, focus on what’s next: grip that ledge and climb up bit by bit, even when every fiber of your body screams in pain. Life edges may be sharp with deep rugged roads but inside us lives a strength so great it can help us make it through any challenge.

This inner strength has its own voice which tells us “you got this!” A reminder that we can push forward even when it feels impossible. This friend within us helps us conquer the obstacles in our way, gives us courage, fire and fearlessness – the perfect companion to see us through the toughest situations. A dedicated cheerleader that lifts us up and pushes us to our limits. So when life gets tough, remember to look within yourself for answers as your mind will always be there to save you.

*in my previous post, I discuss the importance of becoming your own best friend. That relates to keeping the body and mind balanced throughout Life.. You can check out that link here: 🗄An Army of One – Learning To Be Your Own Best friend

Until our beautiful minds meet again, be safe out there. Many blessings and much love. Remember Everyday Minds Matter -Della 💞🦋

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Learn, Life and Love

What have you learned in your life about love?

I believe before one can love, they must understand the value of learning, quality of life, and know what love is.

(1)- (An ability to Learn) Learning is an emotional tag, that allows the brain to understand and process information. One must acknowledge and comprehend hard work. How to: problem solve, have compassion, listen, and value human nature. Educate the mind regularly to face and overcome life challenges.

(2)- (Life skills) To experience life’s challenges and have life skills is part of managing self concepts. Understand the quality of life and those around you. Life skills offer dedication, motivation, and purpose to one’s life. Emotional intelligence, support, psychological and interpersonal abilities.

(3)- (Love) Self-concept to understand yourself and acknowledge what love is. Self respect, value, appreciation, help others, kindness, happiness.

I’ve learned that love requires a lot of work and effort from both parties in order to succeed. It’s important to remember that even though love is hard, it is also one of the most rewarding things in life and worth fighting for. Ultimately, love should be based on mutual understanding, respect, and compassion.

To love unconditionally, a person has to learn by experiencing the nurturing, bonding, trust, compassion, and empathy. Love is an action that’s formed by intimate emotional bonding. Love is not just a feeling; it’s an emotional bond that grows and deepens through shared vulnerability and support. It doesn’t just happen on its own – we have to nurture it and build it over time with intentional actions. When we put effort into creating loving relationships, they can become more intimate, secure, and fulfilling over time. It takes time to love and be committed to love.

Most importantly, love can take years to love unconditionally. And just seconds to destroy. Once love is shattered, no amount of work can restore it. Be careful of your words, your actions, and behavior as it can affect physical, mental and emotional health.

Love is something so powerful and indescribable that we may often mistakenly think of it as a feeling. While feelings certainly play a role, love is ultimately about the intimate bond that two people build together through mutual vulnerability and support. Rather than just expecting to feel love, we must work to build it by taking actions that show how much we care for our partner. We can show our commitment to the relationship in ways such as being supportive, honest, attentive, and kind. Over time, these small gestures will become habitual and create an unbreakable bond between two people that cannot be expressed with words. This bond is what true love really is– an emotional connection that has been formed over time through meaningful actions of kindness and support. Love isn’t something you can expect to happen overnight; rather, it’s something you must nurture with patience and care if you want it to last forever.

Until our beautiful minds meet again, be safe out there. Many blessings and much love. Remember Everyday Minds Matter -Della 💞🦋

Leadership

What makes a good leader?

Leadership is an important role that requires certain qualities and traits to be successful. An effective leader needs to have good communication and interpersonal skills in order to be able to inspire and motivate their team. They need to possess self-confidence, vision, integrity, empathy, and a commitment to making positive changes. They should also be decisive, open-minded, organized, humble, passionate about their work, and willing to take calculated risks. Additionally, they should have the ability to delegate tasks efficiently while keeping the end goal in mind. Ultimately, good leaders recognize the strengths of their team members and create a positive environment that encourages collaboration.

– Until our beautiful minds meet again, be safe out there. Many blessings and much love. Remember Everyday Minds Matter -Della 💞🦋

Co-parenting : Balance Developing Minds

Set me up for success, don’t be cool and let me fail.

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Co-parenting is becoming more and more popular, especially among divorced parents. While there are some positive aspects to it, such as providing children with a sense of security by having both parents in their lives, there are also some challenges that come with co-parenting. One of the biggest issues is striking the right balance between discipline and unconditional love.

When it comes to co-parenting, it can be a difficult situation for children to deal with. There are conflicting opinions on what is right and wrong, especially when one parent may take the ‘discipline’ role while the other may be more lenient or affectionate – it can be hard to create an equitable balance between the two that best serves the child’s mental health.

It’s essential that both parents strive to be fair when it comes to disciplining their children, despite having different ways of teaching and expressing love for them. When parents can come together in agreement about the kind of values they want their children to learn, it will provide much-needed consistency in how those values are presented and reinforced. Additionally, being willing to talk about each parent’s individual style of parenting openly and honestly can go a long way in finding a healthy middle ground for everyone involved.

Creating regular communication between both parents also helps build trust which can lead to better problem-solving abilities when dealing with complex parenting issues. This communication should also include opportunities for collaboration where both parents can talk through any differences they may have when it comes to raising their children. Establishing clear boundaries is another important step as this will give all family members some clarity around expectations while minimizing potential conflicts down the line.

Finding balance in co-parenting is not easy but having an open dialogue between all parties involved is a great place to start. Once all parents are willing to listen and compromise with one another, it becomes much easier to come up with strategies that serve both parents’ goals while also allowing their children to develop and grow in a healthy environment that encourages understanding and empathy towards others.

The good news is that it’s possible to work together as parents and develop a fair approach to discipline, no matter what your differences might be. Here are some tips for creating a successful co-parenting plan:

1) Set consistent expectations: Setting clear rules with consistent expectations gives children security, especially when two households are involved. It can also prevent disagreements between parents about how to handle certain situations. Make sure both households adhere to the same standards when it comes to bedtimes, meal times, chores and other rules that your children need to follow.

2) Create positive reinforcement: No matter what household they’re in, reward positive behaviour whenever possible. Focus on encouragement rather than punishments so that your child feels valued and has an incentive to continue making healthy choices. Encouraging positive behaviour helps them build confidence and teaches them that their efforts are appreciated by both of their parents.

3) Communicate effectively: As co-parents it’s essential to have regular communication in order to make sure you’re both on the same page when it comes to raising your child/ren. Make sure both parents understand each other’s expectations and listen carefully if there are any differences in opinion – find ways of resolving conflicts peacefully and respectfully, keeping your children’s best interests at heart.

4) Be flexible: Try not to be too rigid with rules – recognise that circumstances change, including kids needs at different ages and stages in their lives. Remain open minded so you can adjust quickly if something isn’t working or compromise if necessary so that everyone is happy with the outcome of each situation.

These four tips should help create a balanced approach for co-parenting – encouraging respect, fairness and understanding while providing consistency across both households. All these elements are essential in order for children to grow up feeling secure and well supported by both their parents – which ultimately benefits everyone involved!

Finally, parents should practice active communication and cooperation – rather than engaging in passive-aggressive conflict or trying to one-up each other in front of their children – which will help foster a respectful relationship between them and create an atmosphere of mutual understanding in each household.

Until our beautiful minds meet again, be safe out there. Many blessings and much love. Remember Everyday Minds Matter -Della 💞🦋

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Unexpected Challenges

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Life can be full of unexpected challenges that can feel like too much to handle. It can feel like a heavy burden when stress and financial struggles are combined with other major challenges, leaving us feeling overwhelmed and unable to cope with the mental strain. This feeling is not uncommon and it’s important to remember that we’re never alone in facing difficult times.

Challenges We’ve all been there at some point in our lives, feeling completely overwhelmed and stressed due to the overwhelming challenges that life has presented us with. From financial struggles, work-related stress, or major life changes, we can often find ourselves feeling overwhelmed and unable to cope with the mental mess we are faced with. It’s important to remember that these situations are incredibly common and that you’re not alone. The key to managing overwhelming circumstances is developing strategies that allow you to find balance and create space between the overwhelming feelings and what you can do about them. Keep an organized notebook of important information. Try to plan a weekly routine, activities included. This can help manage time as well, so your not overwhelmed at last minute. When challenging situations arise, they won’t be so disruptive to your routine. It’s easy to overload our schedules and allowing time management to fall short in completing important task.

Manage Stress To help manage stressful situations, there are many activities you can try such as taking some deep breaths, talking with friends or family, doing something creative or trying meditation or mindfulness. Even getting some exercise or sleep can make a huge difference in our outlook and how we handle difficult circumstances. Taking some time for yourself to do activities you enjoy and setting achievable goals will help take your mind off of your troubles for a bit, allowing for greater clarity and focus when you face them again. Additionally, considering professional counseling can be incredibly beneficial when struggling with overwhelm, providing valuable insights into improving self-awareness, personal effectiveness and productivity in challenging times. No matter how tough things may seem right now, remember that we all go through hard times. There is relief, if we persevere and develop strategies to manage overwhelming feelings before they take control of our lives. So take a deep breath – you got this!

Thinking Positive In times of high stress and strain it is essential to ensure that we take care of our mental health first. We can do this by creating a positive mindset and trying to reframe negative thoughts into something more productive and encouraging. Positive thinking is essential when dealing with difficult circumstances as it helps us break through the barriers and access a calmness of mind which will help to better understand our current situation.

Taking breaks throughout the day from the stresses of life is essential in managing feelings of overwhelm. Having an escape such as reading a book, exercising outdoors, cooking or playing music will help provide a much-needed break for our minds which helps combat against any stresses or anxiety felt during these times.

Additionally, prioritizing your tasks and having an action plan in place is also beneficial in keeping on top of workloads. As it creates order rather than chaos; which again can aid in providing peace within ourselves when working towards completing objectives.

Talk it Out If you feel like your stress levels have become too much, it is important to talk to someone about how you’re feeling. Talking about what’s causing you distress can really help lift a weight off your shoulders. A therapist can provide professional support during tough times, or alternatively speaking to friends or family who will be understanding of your current struggles can be helpful.

Although there may be periods in life where we feel overly overwhelmed with pressures being placed upon us; remembering that we are not alone during these challenging moments. It’s vital as others around us will share similar stories they have faced in life’s turmoil’s. Taking time out for self-care such as meditating, exercise or hobbies provides welcome distractions whilst engaging in talks with therapists/friends/family is incredibly important in seeking assistance where/when needed. You got this👍

Until our beautiful minds meet again, be safe out there. Many blessings and much love. Remember Everyday Minds Matter -Della 💞🦋

The last window

The world was a barren wasteland, a product of its own destruction. The Earth had been wracked by years of wars and natural disasters, leaving it little more than a barren rock with hardly any living creatures. The few humans who had survived had been forced to adapt in whatever ways they could, often having to resort to violence in order to survive.

Last window

Raj was one of these survivors. He’d grown up in the wastelands, barely making it day-to-day with only the sparse supplies that he scavenged from the remains of civilization. But he was lucky – he had stumbled across a relic of times gone by – an old window that still shone brightly when the sun hit it just right. The realm is being fond of such history from mass destruction that took place. Civilization crumbled and the government resources were punishment for the survivors. The window played that role of security strengthened hope and life forward. When no strength for a future was possible the last window, gave hope.

For Raj, this window served as more than just something to gaze at during his rare moments of reprieve – it served as a reminder that not everything in life was doom and gloom. He would sit for hours watching the sun dance off the glass, creating vibrant shapes and patterns in its light. It felt like he could almost make out faces and landscapes in its brightness. To him, this window represented hope, even if he was too far removed from anything good to ever truly experience it. A fairly new creation that shaped life as Raj would know it. In dust filled air, a wind of swirling dust quietly posed a form of life.

Then one day something miraculous happened – outside the window there was movement! A group of people emerged from behind some rocks on the horizon – their clothing worn and their expressions tired but alive nonetheless! For a moment Raj simply couldn’t believe what he was seeing but then joy surged through his veins like a jolt of electricity as his mind accepted that humanity wasn’t doomed after all!

He quickly rushed down from his spot on the mountain side and raced toward the small gathering below. His heart pounded harder and harder as he approached until finally he stopped directly before them and made his announcement: “I’ve found the last window!” In great surprise and chuckles heard in the crowd, ‘last window?”

Until our beautiful minds meet again, be safe out there. Many blessings and much love. Remember Everyday Minds Matter-Della 💞🦋

Writing

What is? Why does it matter?

Landing is easy, staying focused is tough.

Have you ever thought about your personal story? Could your story or experience help others? Writing is a form of self-help. We never realize but in some cases, if we listen to our inner being we can help ourselves through challenges. If you’re ready to take your life in a new direction, let’s talk! Your experience and story can open a new found you. Just by creating a direction to help others.

Sharing stuff that matters

Writing is a great way to share your knowledge with the world, your story with the world, and your experience with others. You can also use Writing to share your knowledge about something that matters to you—like how to improve your health, find love!, Or rebuild a lawn mower. Endless topics,it’s your knowledge to share with others.

Gratitude – Prayer of “Thank you”

Gratitude is the key to happiness, success, health and everything.

Gratitude is a daily practice. The more you practice gratitude, the more it will become your default mode of thinking and behavior.

One step at a time – self-motivation.

The first step is to accept that you need help. This may seem like an obvious statement, but there are plenty of people who refuse to admit it and instead push themselves into a corner where they can’t escape. Don’t make this mistake!

Once you’ve accepted the fact that your life might not be as easy as it seems at first glance (and sometimes even later), consider taking some time off from your goal if necessary. If nothing else works then try giving up on one part of the task every few days until something else clicks into place and all problems disappear!

Emotions are real, I feel that.

Emotions are real, I feel that.

Emotions are a part of the human experience, and it’s important to acknowledge and understand them. Feelings are just feelings; they’re not always negative or positive—they just exist as a part of who we are. It can be difficult for people to deal with their emotions in an effective way, but it’s worth learning how to do so because there are many benefits from doing so:

On one hand, if you learn how to manage your own emotions effectively then you’ll be able to better handle stressful situations while also being able to feel confident moving forward in life

Self-talk is real, I speak it.

Self-talk is real. It’s the way we talk to ourselves, and it can be positive or negative.

When you’re feeling down, telling yourself that everything will be okay might help you get through the day. When you’re feeling happy about something, telling yourself that nothing is going to go wrong can keep your mind at ease until it’s time for bed (or work). In other words: self-talk helps us achieve our goals by helping us focus on what we want and letting go of what we don’t need anymore—and since we’ve already been talking about how important this skill is for achieving success in life, let’s continue!

Worry is real, I worry because its my story if i make it so.

Worry is real and it can be a useful tool if you use it correctly, but it’s not the only method for motivating yourself. In fact, worrying about things that haven’t happened yet can actually cause you to feel worse than if you hadn’t worried at all!

Instead of worrying about what might happen in the future, focus on taking action today instead. How? By setting goals and tasks for yourself that will help take control over your life by making simple changes like reducing sugar intake or finding time for exercise every day (or at least trying). Making slow progress is the first step. The rest generally falls in place if you continue to move forward.

By focusing on positive actions rather than pessimistic thoughts, I’ve found myself feeling more confident with my decisions because they were made consciously—and those decisions have been easier because we’re seeing results right away!

Section; Self-Belief is my gift. I believe in me and so do others.

Self-belief is a gift.

I believe in me and so do others.

Believe in your ability to solve problems, help others and earn success for yourself. It’s a gift that you give yourself by believing in yourself.

Why do I write? Because we are here to help someone else – solve their problems with theirs!

I write because it makes me feel good.

Writing helps me to express myself, and that is what we all need in life. We have so much to learn from each other and from our experiences, so why not share them?

I know that this is a lot of information and it’s hard to keep all this stuff in your head at once, but don’t worry! If you follow this advice, we will help you with everything. Writing is about taking action and doing things that matter. So just start one step at a time. You will get there sooner than you think!

Until our beautiful minds meet again, be safe out there. Many blessings and much love. Remember Everyday Minds Matter -Della 💞🦋